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How to Eat Pussy (Suggestions for the wondering )
Hey Guys and ladies, actually that article is dedicated to anybody who hasn't really got their hand(s) and tongue-mouth messy yet ;)
I guess you all know by now that I am not referring to the animal here lol.
Ok, so why would you lie to eat pussy ha? Well because it's fucking yummy ;) And your lady will enjoy it immensely. I mean you also enjoy a good head right? I mean it's only a small part of the vast universe of love and ecstatic bliss there is to explore and that article is a bit more focusing on the physical experience and things you can do just in case you are not a natural yet in loving your lady, sweetly torturing her with ecstasy.
I am always quite surprised at how little so many man and women know about her or their own pussy and how to please her immensely, her being her body and kitty. I mean we all agree that love and fireworks are not at all about knowing or techniques, we are all past that point, it's about soul connection, higher selves making out in bliss and joy mixed with love on the higher levels condensing down into our joyful and trembling bodies, filled with intoxicating chemistry of lust and passion. Waiting to lose ourselves in the deepest pits of emptiness in space and to be reborn in the fire of true deep emotional passion, raising together to the purest heavenly bliss.
But what if somewhere on the way to that journey there is a block or we simply didn't line up with the "right partner" at that moment what to do? Ok at first I want to share some info on Both ways of the tantric and Orgasmic experience in relation to the cyclical nature of life. So to start with it is quite important to understand a certain nature of life, and that is, that intense Joy, Love and Bliss get and liquefies everything that is denser than these higher frequencies and thus it surfaces. That means it is totally normal that one can have a strong emotional release after having experienced a strong and body shaking orgasm or more. It is all good just hold space for him or her and be with them and their emotions, hug or cuddle them, remind you or your partner if needed of the beauty in the release of denser, old - stored emotions (physical trauma ) making more space for awareness and love and joy to enter the body. This is therapeutic orgasming. In the moment of orgasm, the energy flow from higher self and universe is extremely strong, although it is an explosive outward directed type of experience never forget that contrary to the regular Tantric belief that energy is unlimited if you understand your and the universe's true nature and a lot of that pure and new energy is sucked in our bodies while orgasming.
I will not talk about the other tantric types here in this post as it would simply be too long and misleading, this one is on fast and slowly building and strong and explosive releasing orgasms.
So to start with I suggest that both of you are already there ready to go... Feel each other's vibes till you wanna cuddle, cuddle till you almost lose it, start kissing while cuddling and undressing each other... ( just some little hints all that happens naturally... just follow your vibes and flow... )
enjoy each other bodies long enough to be so crazy for each other that you simply can't hold back anymore and go... you still need that advice? Really ? Ok :) Well I will start by giving you a hint, feel your lady feel her feel what she likes, feel what she is into, look at her she is talking so much not only through her feelings but also through her body language and facial expression and actions especially if she is on fire...
But ok this article is dedicated to lets say the lesser fortunate situations and how to unlock somebodies passion for good... sometimes it may take a few days of hard orgasming and release or longer, but we also can awaken our orgasmic nature if we are ready to open our hearts and bodies, to be vulnerable and relax, simply let go and enjoy the ride or journey. That is really the key. Feeling safe and comfortable in our own skin and with our partner, Always choose somebody that you value, love appreciate or have crazy chemistry with or all together. But even if some of it is missing, and they are quite difficult at letting go or relaxing because of some mental conditioning this might very well tingle themselves out of their shell.
Note: you can also just love somebody out of their shell with pure unconditional love and compassion, but that's not the subject of this blog, that for another one soon to come for those that might be feeling a bit uncomfortable with this one here ;)
So to the more technical side of it, 1 rule never make it a technique follow your flow and feel he,r see her and dance with her between her legs. You want to use your fingers and tongue, sometimes you want to use only your tongue. It all depends on what level of consciousness, sexual-sensual activation and connection you and the lady are on in general and at that moment.
One technique that is very strong is the come here motion on her inner clitoris, yes the clit has and outer and inner side, the hornier- further down the road of orgasm the lady - the more you will feel that part getting bigger, her muscles will also contract and tremble, it will be evident at some point, you will see obvious signs from moaning, back arching, heavy deep throaty voice to uncontrollable body movements and heavy breathing of her part. Careful you want to make sure not to get kicked by her knees or other waving body parts at that moment, hold her, stay safe ;) The trick is simply to enjoy licking and playing with clit while you have 1 or 2 ( I would say 2 ;) fingers inside her massaging in the come here motion the engorged back of her clit... you will see it works wonders, you can play with edging ( making her almost cum and then wait and kiss and caress her a bit while whispering hot stuff in her ears, to give her even more sweet torture ;) You can also just alternate whatever you like fingering or whatever you like as long as you know and understand that the internal part of the clit is a great playground for intense experiences and located on the inside of her vagina when she is laying on her back and you enter her with your fingers its right on the top just where here clit is but on the inside, a quite big area ... you will feel it, it's almost as big and large as 2 of you fingers to 1 thumb sometimes 2 thumbs. So Don't be afraid, you won't miss it ;) Also play around and explore all her vagina, find our what she likes. But man if you play this well it takes a normally only few min even in the most"difficult" situations to orgasm hard... ( it's all about the journey, but this article is dedicated to a different aspect of it ) some might need 45 min and that's great 2, get finger and tongue stamina, it's worth it, this is pleasurable for hours upon ours and you can literally fuck and orgasm each other brains out like this.
One other way to torture her even more and I mean this in a sweet way, is to only and I say only lick her clit, some women reading this would surely want to punish me right now ;) lol guess why? It gives in general a sense of strong tension and slightly uncomfortable very intense feeling, that results for some ladies in the most intense and trembling-screaming orgasms they ever had... calculate a good 26 min or so on that one ;) some are really quick to orgasm some take longer we are all different and there is no right and wrong here, also both of you should enjoy every part of the journey here, otherwise don't do it. That's it get creative and enjoy exploring your ladies. Make music on each other's bodies.
A note to the Ladies: sometimes it's worth being a bit sweetly tortured in order to experience the most explosive orgasm ever.